...love

While we were talking about love...

relationships...

my friend said to me...

''When I love him unconditionally I will be able to leave him...''

I didn't understand what she meant until just the other day...

at least I didn't understand the message in her words for me..

Unconditional love can only be achieved through forgiveness...

without forgiveness for someone we really can't leave them...

we take all the the pain, hurt and slights, 

and fights and fear with us...

Leaving without forgiveness keeps the ties tight...

we don't really leave..we just turn our backs.